Eleanor of Aquitaine

Eleanor and Henry II tombs

I first "met" Eleanor of Aquitaine as a character in a movie The Lion in Winter.  As portrayed by Katherine Hepburn, she is a strong woman who has been imprisoned by her husband King Henry II of England.  The movie is about one Christmas when he brings her "home" to "celebrate" with three of their children:  Richard the Lionheart, Geoffrey and John. Henry and Eleanor have to decide who is to be the heir to the throne since Henry, their oldest son, has died.  Eleanor's favorite is Richard and Henry's favorite is John. (no one likes Geoffrey apparently). It's a lively movie with a lot of verbal give and take between the king and queen.

But back to Eleanor who was quite possibly the most influential woman in Europe.  She was Queen of Aquitaine in her own right (meaning she didn't get the title when she married a king) but she, did indeed marry two Kings:  Louis VII of France and Henry II of England. She was not a queen who sat in the corner embroidering scarves but considered herself an equal.  She was outspoken and opinionated which was not appreciated in that male dominated world of Medieval Europe.  She even accompanied her husband Louis on a Crusade to the Holy Lands. Legend has it that she and her company of women were dressed (or undressed) like Amazons going into battle.

Eleanor had ten children:  two with Louis VII and eight with Henry II.  Of those ten children three were kings of England in her lifetime:  Henry III, Richard I and John . One daughter Eleanor was Queen of Castille and another Joan was Queen of Sicily. Her power was so great she was often the only woman "in the room" when politics were discussed and plans  were made.

So, how are we related to this remarkable woman who is my 24th great grandmother?  We descend from 5 of her children. She had two daughters with Louis VII:  Marie Capet (Countess of Champagne) and Alice Capet (Countess of Blois).  They were both my 23rd great grandmothers. With Henry II, I descend from Matilda (Duchess of Saxony and Bavaria), Eleanor (Queen of Castille) and John (King of England)---my 24th great grandmothers and grandfather.

I was over-joyed to find that I descend from such a strong woman who could hold her own with such powerful men and yet loved poetry. She was clever and out-spoken. Sadly we don't have any of her actual words but we do have some wonderful quotes from The Lion in Winter addressing her husband and sons:

 Of course he has a knife, he always has a knife, we all have knives! It's 1183 and we're barbarians! How clear we make it. Oh, my piglets, we are the origins of war: not history's forces, nor the times, nor justice, nor the lack of it, nor causes, nor religions, nor ideas, nor kinds of government, nor any other thing. We are the killers. We breed wars. ... For the love of God, can't we love one another just a little - that's how peace begins. We have so much to love each other for. We have such possibilities, my children. We could change the world.

And "change the world" they did but it was not peacefully done.. . .