Showing posts with label notes to grandchildren. Show all posts
Showing posts with label notes to grandchildren. Show all posts

Friday, October 10, 2025

Brian Boru, High King of Ireland

 Dear Silas,


Two used books for your birthday?  This year each grandchild has received a book about one of our ancestors.  I chose Brian Boru, the High King of Ireland, for you.  You may notice both books are by the same author—Morgan Llewelyn.  One is fictional and the other non-fiction but both are about Brian Boru.  I suggest you read the old one with the man on the cover first to introduce you to Brian and Ireland of a thousand years ago.


The 1014 book is non-fiction so is a little more difficult to read but I’m finding it very interesting.  The first chapter is about Ireland at that time and the tribes of Ireland during an earlier period.  If you skip that chapter, the second chapter begins the story of Brian Boru.  You may need a little help reading this book so I’m writing notes in it that may help. it is very detailed about the battle of Clontarf which shaped Ireland today.


Brian was brilliant at tactical battles and his enemy was primarily the Norse who had settled in ireland.  We probably descend from Brian, but we also descend from Vikings, Norsemen and Normans who were the primary invaders of all of the countries in the North Sea area.  Try to admire Brian without taking sides since we also descend from the Vikings. Roman’s books were about the Vikings.


The Battle of Clontarf might have been sparked by a chess game but Gormlaith (Gorma) , Brian Boru’s wife, Malemora’s sister and Sitrich Silkbeard’s mother played a part: thus the comparison to Helen of Troy.  We desecend from both Brian and Gormlaith through their son Donnchad.


The battle consisted of Brian Buordu with his son Murrough defending the seat of High King with many neighboring kingdoms joining forces.


 They were fighting a coalition of tribes led by Malemora, Sitric Silkbeard who was the viking king of Dublin, with Sigrud the Stout and Brodir, the pirate king (both Vikings)


The Battle conclude with 7,000-10,000 killed including the leaders on boths sides—-in one day April 23 1104.  More important than who won the batlle is the question who lost—-the leaders of both sides.  Ireland was so defeated with no leaders that the natives (Gael) and the vikings  (Norsemen) learned to live together peacefully and just call themselves “Irish”.


You are Irish from your Granddaddy’s family and mine. Brian was the youngest of about 10 children as you are also the youngest.  I think you will enjoy his story.


If you get together with your siblings and cousins, you will discover we descend from almost every king and queen ruling western Europe in the dark ages.  The Dark Ages were a time of plagues, disease and death in battle.  For example,the black plague in the 1200’s killed half of the European poputlation. The ruling class survived and had children.  So, millions of people have royal roots. What is unusual is we can trace our ancestry on paper to those rulers and most people can’t.


I enjoyed reading these books since I’d been to some of the places mentioned when Grandpa and I went to Ireland.  I wish I’d known this history before we went.  I never thought I’d enjoy reading a book about one battle, but I have enjoyed the books very much.


Love and Happy Birthday!


Grandma (and Grandpa)

The Dark Ages

 Dear Eli, July 2025


This is one of Grandpa’s and my favorite books about “The Dark Ages”. Sorry it’s a little “well-read”. It tells the stories of some of my favorite legendary Brits—-Bodecia and King Arthur (I checked and we probably are not related to either of them to my dismay).  Beginning with chapter 5, there are  other stories which are also very interesting and are indeed relatives or ancestors:  King Alfred the Great, Ethelred the Unready, William the Conqueror. Athelstan and Eric Bloodaxe are “great uncles”: they are siblings of our ancestors so we are related to  them but don’t descend from them.


I’ve tried not to burden any one of my grandchildren with the royal extent of our family but rather wanted each one to focus on an individual because the full array is even hard for me to digest. But, this book is brimming with ancestors—-Sam had a story about King Alfred the Great in his book (and my grandmother’s family in Williamsburg, Va).  So, that leaves you with Ethelred the Unready and William the Conqueror.  William the Conqueror changed England and the English language forever, so if you are to read one story, read about William the Conqueror who etched the year 1066 forever in English history.


This is a particularly good person for you to read about since you probably descend from Normans on your father’s side also.  Although I haven’t researched the details, “Warren” is considered a Norman name. William the Conqueror is not some gorgeous knight in shining armor with sparkling teeth and a confident smile but a warrior king of Viking heritage.  Many are unaware that “Norman” is short for “Norsemen”.  So, William and his vast invasion was a combination of French military organization and Viking fierceness and naval prowess.


While reading the story of the invasion, try not to take sides because you descend from both sides.  There’s a family tree on page 210 of the Saxon and Norman family trees. I have a check mark by all of the people you descend from.  I discovered this when researching Lbby’s person St. Margaret of Scotland. Her granddaughter Matilda was also William the Conqueror’s grandchild.. Those family holiday dinners must have been interesting! The Plantagenet family (William’s family) is one of my favorites with Eleanor of Aquitaine (Anna’s person) and Richard the Lionheart (who had no children that we know of). 


I saved this book for you with all of the other royals in the two lines because you’re interested in history. if you have any trouble understanding anything, let me know.  It’s not as unusual as you might think that we are descend from  so many “royals:  Princes tend to marry Princesses.  


These charts are to show you my direct lineage from them.   Again, millions of people descend from these famous kings and queens but they don’t know it and don’t have a chart showing the lineage.


Love,

“Princess” Grandma


PS If you are ever “into” any of the Viking or Medieval  TV series/movies, there will be lot of family history to watch.

The Spy from Williamsburg

 Sam, May 2025


A Spy from Williamsburg is a book I’ve had in my library for some time..  I bought it because it had a character in it that I was related to, Gabriel Maupin.  But, I have 4 Gabriel Maupins in my family tree who lived in or around Williamsburg before the Revolutionary War. This book was sold at the Williamsburg book store so I trust it has accurate information.  While reading the book,I read that Gabriel Maupin had a son named George Washington Maupin (p. 84), I thought, “I have never heard of a Maupin with that  name.  So, with a little research I found the Gabriel Maupin mentioned in the book —-my first cousin 5 times removed (7 times removed for you).  That one did indeed have a son called George Washington Maupin. So, it’s not one of my ancestors but a still a family member.


Reading on (89-91), I was very interested in all of the details about black smithing.  I come from a long line of black smiths. One of my father’s grandfathers was a smith as were two of his great grandfathers. One worked for the railroad, one for a lead mine and another made wagon wheels but went on to making carriages.  His sons worked in the early automobile industry assembling cars.


In that same section (91) is a story about King Alfred of England——at last someone I knew I descended from—-my 33rd great grandfather who was sometimes called Alfred the Great.  That’s an interesting story they tell in the book about him realizing that life would be difficult without the blacksmiths..  Wikipedia says of King Alfred:


Alfred had a reputation as a learned and merciful man of a gracious and level-headed nature who encouraged education, proposing that primary education be conducted in English rather than Latin, and improving the legal system and military structure and his people's quality of life. He was given the epithet "the Great" from as early as the 13th century, though it was only popularized from the 16th century.[4] Alfred is the only native-born English monarch to be labelled as such.


This year, each of the grandchildren is being given a book mostly from our bulging bookshelves with special meaning.  Yours is a book that reminded me on one I read on YouTube “Tolliver’s Secret”.  They both take place in the 1770’s, with 12 year olds taking on adult responsibilities when a family member is injured. But this book takes place in Virginia where Grandpa and I both had family living in the 1770s. I hope you enjoy it.  And, I hope you understand a little more about your ancestors and family history.


Love, Grandma


The Vikings

 Roman—


The first time I ever saw or heard of Vikings was watching Saturday morning cartoons.  Those cartoons were also my introduction to classical music.  Bugs Bunny portrayed a Viking woman in a Wagnerian Opera. I loved the helmet with the blonde braids coming down.  Someday I hope to have my photo in one.


After that the only references that I had to Vikings were they were barbarian savages who invaded peaceful villages, killed and pillaged the churches of their valuables.  Oh, and they were Scandinavian:  Norwegian, Swedish, Danish.  


Later, as an adult, I learned they were so much more than that. Hollywood and cartoons had not given them a fair rap.  Sure there were some that killed and pillaged, but many didn’t.  First, they weren’t just Scandinavian but were Baltics which includes Estonia, Lithuania, Latvian, German and Russian. Second, many settled peacefully in areas of England, France, Germany, Scotland.  Grandpa, I, and you descend from Vikings.


I first became aware of Grandpa’s Viking heritage when we visited the Viking Museum in York England—-your mom and aunts were little girls. We had just visited the Swale Valley where his mother’s ancestors were from the Aldersons. I looked at the map of where Vikings settled and  they settled in that same valley.  And then I realized Alderson  wasn’t an English name like Johnson—-John is a common English name but not Alder.They were of Viking descent.


I don’t really have an aha moment on my Viking ancestors. I had known for some time my grandmother’s family were from Normandy and came to America in the early 1700’s.   It took me a few years to put it all together.  If they were from Normandy: they were Normans which is short for “North man”  which is Viking. 


 If you look at the map in your book (on page 6) you’ll see where the Vikings lived. It confirms Grandpa’s English Viking and my French Viking roots, but it also shows that yours are also Viking roots.


This year, all of the grandchildren are getting one of Grandpa’s books and/or a book on their heritage.  You are getting both  The older book has a section on the ship building of the Vikings and how that knowledge influenced the houses they built.  The newer book shows how they lived, who the famous Vikings were, their contributions to society and their brilliant engineering.


Be proud of who you are and what you have accomplished—-Grandpa and I are/were certainly proud of you.


Love Grandma

Tuesday, August 12, 2025

Charlegmagne----Davis

Although I've loved historical fiction my whole life, I was always especially fond of medieval history. As a child, Princess and the Pea was my favorite story and I often tried to prove I was a princess because my skin was so easily irritated by stiff fabrics, tags in the back and hair brushes. I even went so far as to put things under my mattress to see if I could feel them: I did not. Over the years, I leaned toward the King Arthur legend, Charlemagne and the Crusades.  

Although genealogy has been a hobby of mine for 50 years, I have never been on a quest to find famous people in our family. I was content with finding where our ancestor came from. Recently I've tried a new web site that I'd only "visited" briefly over the years.  It's the Wikitree site which has a "World Tree".  The concept is we all add to the same tree.  There are problems galore when thousands (millions?) of genealogists around the world are contributing. But, we are supposed to provide proof for our additions not hearsay or family legends.

So, I spent several weeks entering information (with sources), and then I found "gateway ancestors" which aligned my tree with royalty and nobility.  The royals have been genealogists for centuries so they aren't marrying too many cousins (like the Hapsburg line did).  With a "gateway ancestors", they've introduced me to family on every throne throughout Western Europe for centuries---most are cousins (King Charles III is our 16th cousin) and uncles, but several are indeed royal ancestors. 

Charlemagne


I think the first "royal" I found in our direct line was Charlemagne (748-814)  who is also known as Charles the Great.  It's been suggested that every person of European descent has Charlemagne as their ancestor. For many years, I've considered him the greatest king of all time. When I taught, I often told the story of Charlemagne learning to read because he knew the power of reading.  He encouraged education, opening schools and promoted legible writing including the widespread use of the question mark.  He always had a book under his pillow.  We have 76,759 paths to Charlemagne.He's my 33 and 36 great grandfather through my father LeRoy Long which makes him 35 and 38 greats for my grandchildren.  I sat stunned probably for about a week with the news.

He was the first emperor of the Carolingian empire consisting of what is today France, Germany, Belgium, Austria, Switzerland, Netherlands, Luxembourg,  and part of Italy and Czech Republic.  He is often called the The Father of Europe. He was very large even by today's standards 6"2".  The photo above is his reliquary located in Aachen, Germany.

Charlemagne had over 20 children with numerous wives and mistresses.  He insisted that all of the children receive a liberal arts education in addition to needlework for the girls and riding and weaponry for the boys.  I descend from two of them for sure : Bertha and Hlodowic (Louis). Others have some degree of uncertainty in the lineage.

Hlodowic



Hlodowic (Louis/Ludwig) was Charlemagne's heir becoming King of the Franks and King of Aquitaine. He is sometimes known as Louis the Pious, Louis the Fair and my favorite: Louis the Debonaire.  We descend from his daughter Gisela who was known for her virtue and piety.  She dedicated her life to educating her children with her husband Eberhard who became St. Eberhard. (We descend from at least three saints: St. Eberhard, St. Margaret of Scotland and San Fernando)

None of Charlemagne's daughters married---he feared their husbands would become political rivals.  It didn't stop them from having long-term relationships and children. But, it shows the political importance of marriages at this time.  Bertha is praised in particular for "having critical discernment and an appreciation for poetry".  

When her father died, she and her sisters went to live in convents which their father left them.  It's unknown which convent she entered but it was probably St. Riquier where her partner Angilbert had become the lay-abbot.

So, now when the tag in my shirt hurts, I nod and think, "It's just my Princess gene".

Sunday, February 23, 2025

St. Margaret of Scotland

My cousins and I  loved visiting our grandparents flat  at 39th street and Flad in St. Louis.  Coming up the stairs was a huge hall area with an old skylight showing its age: the glass was more "frosted" than clear and often had leaves resting on it.  We immediately got to the top of the steps and looked around to see if our other cousins were there. If not, then we sat quietly reading a book or playing with Uncle Ron's old toys.

But, if the cousins were already there, the race began! Our favorite game began---CHASE! The boys (Bob and Steve) usually led the chase but  sometimes I did which occasionally resulting in injury for my taller cousins: I was able to run under tables they were too tall for.  It was a great game running through the butler's pantry into the kitchen, into the dining room sometimes waiting under the lace table cloth, waiting for my victims.  But sometimes they saw me and the race was on again out to the huge hall, through the pantry, kitchen and dining room.  We were a happy, but noisy trio of cousins.  


Our parents tried to slow us down fearful that someone (Steve) would get hurt.  But, nothing slowed us down until we heard the Westminster chimes of the church across the street: St. Margaret's of Scotland.  Our grandmother Vivian Maupin Long loved  to hold us to listen to the chimes.  She had us try to repeat them and on the hour, count the chimes to know what time it was.  To live across the street with chimes going off every 15 minutes, she must have loved them.

To this day those chimes are soothing to me:  I sit back and can feel myself relax as the chimes bathe over me. Once after the chimes, I looked outside and saw all of these people going to church and asked my grandmother why we didn't go there to church.  She explained that we weren't Catholic but Methodist.  Our church was Lafayette Park Methodist Church which we needed to take a bus or a street car to get to.  I wanted to just step inside to see what the church was like on the inside, but she told me I couldn't because I wasn't Catholic.

Years later, after I'd retired, Dave and I drove through that old neighborhood .  My grandparents flat was still there with the balcony my grandmother was afraid would collapse.  Then, I looked across to St. Margaret's  and was happy to see it is still a bustling active congregation.  


Imagine my surprise to find that St. Margaret of Scotland was my 28th grandmother (she's the 30th for my grandchildren).  With some research I found that she was a Saxon princess who married King Malcom (the Great) of Scotland.  As the Queen of Scotland, she was loved and revered by many for her pious ways and her generous nature.  

I found a historical fiction book about her marriage to Malcom and her life as Queen of Scotland: Queen Hereafter by Susan Fraser King.  In that book I discovered Lady MacBeth was her contemporary.  I checked and can say we do NOT descend from Lady MacBeth. I am very proud to have St. Margaret of Scotland as one of my ancestors.  

I keep thinking about my grandmother (her 26th granddaughter) living across the street from a church with her ancestor and she never knew it. Grandma was the kindest and most generous woman like her ancestor Margaret. Maybe those chimes were a voice from her distant past tolling in sisterhood.


Wednesday, November 27, 2024

Eleanor of Aquitaine

Eleanor and Henry II tombs
Anna,

I first "met" Eleanor of Aquitaine as a character in a movie The Lion in Winter.  As portrayed by Katherine Hepburn, she is a strong woman who has been imprisoned by her husband King Henry II of England.  The movie is about one Christmas when he brings her "home" to "celebrate" with three of their children:  Richard the Lionheart, Geoffrey and John. Henry and Eleanor have to decide who is to be the heir to the throne since Henry, their oldest son, has died.  Eleanor's favorite is Richard and Henry's favorite is John. (no one likes Geoffrey apparently). It's a lively movie with a lot of verbal give and take between the king and queen.

But back to Eleanor who was quite possibly the most influential woman in Europe.  She was Queen of Aquitaine in her own right (meaning she didn't get the title when she married a king) but she, did indeed marry two Kings:  Louis VII of France and Henry II of England. She was not a queen who sat in the corner embroidering scarves but considered herself an equal.  She was outspoken and opinionated which was not appreciated in that male dominated world of Medieval Europe.  She even accompanied her husband Louis on a Crusade to the Holy Lands. Legend has it that she and her company of women were dressed (or undressed) like Amazons going into battle.

Eleanor had ten children:  two with Louis VII and eight with Henry II.  Of those ten children three were kings of England in her lifetime:  Henry III, Richard I and John . One daughter Eleanor was Queen of Castille and another Joan was Queen of Sicily. Her power was so great she was often the only woman "in the room" when politics were discussed and plans  were made.

So, how are we related to this remarkable woman who is my 24th great grandmother?  We descend from 5 of her children. She had two daughters with Louis VII:  Marie Capet (Countess of Champagne) and Alice Capet (Countess of Blois).  They were both my 23rd great grandmothers. With Henry II, I descend from Matilda (Duchess of Saxony and Bavaria), Eleanor (Queen of Castille) and John (King of England)---my 24th great grandmothers and grandfather.

I was over-joyed to find that I descend from such a strong woman who could hold her own with such powerful men and yet loved poetry. She was clever and out-spoken. Sadly we don't have any of her actual words but we do have some wonderful quotes from The Lion in Winter addressing her husband and sons:

 Of course he has a knife, he always has a knife, we all have knives! It's 1183 and we're barbarians! How clear we make it. Oh, my piglets, we are the origins of war: not history's forces, nor the times, nor justice, nor the lack of it, nor causes, nor religions, nor ideas, nor kinds of government, nor any other thing. We are the killers. We breed wars. ... For the love of God, can't we love one another just a little - that's how peace begins. We have so much to love each other for. We have such possibilities, my children. We could change the world.

And "change the world" they did but it was not peacefully done.. . .  


Wednesday, January 27, 2010

Clyde Manion


I've made it a goal to "meet" at least one descendant of each of William Graham's children (not counting Adeline who had no children.) Clyde Manion was my grandfather Roy's 3rd cousin, great-grandson of Susan Graham Manion. But, Clyde's uncle William Clinton Manion married one of Roy's aunts (Elizabeth Reiter), so they were sort of doubly related. (Yes, this sort of thing happened a lot in Jefferson County, MO)

Although this baseball card (valued at around $50) says he was born in St. Louis, that was just the closest big city. He was born in Big River Twp, Jefferson County, Missouri where William and Margaret Graham (his g-g grandparents) settled in the early 1800's. His family moved to Eaton, Colorado around 1901 where he grew up with his 9 siblings.

His full name was Clyde Jennings Manion, but his family called him "Rick". Oddly, he was known as "Pete" in baseball circles. No one knows why he had two different nick-names. According to Lynda, a cousin:
I just remember when he came home to Colorado he was just one of the gang. We called him Rick; who knows why, but he was called Pete on the teams. Our cousins in Detroit did not know he was called Rick by his family out here. Clyde's first wife was a beautiful woman, we understand. She was killed in a car accident on her way to meet him at one of his games.
After the death of his first wife, he re-married.  The following is from one of their grandchildren:

We all grew up calling her "Mommadoll."  Momadoll's name was Marion.  Clyde was referred to by us grand kids as "clyde-dee-dy-dee."  All of that was her idea.  Mommadoll died in 1994.  She met Clyde as a baseball player.  She fancied herself somewhat of a socialite and no doubt, thought ball players while stars and popular people, were shady people.  When Clyde finished his career in 1934 he wanted to move to coaching but, from what I have heard, she wanted him to have a more respectable job.  He became an insurance agent for the Equitable Life Insurance Co.
 
Clyde stayed in Detroit because she was there and he was well known there (help with insurance business) She was always well dressed and proper.
He began his professional career in 1920 with the Detroit Tigers where he played catcher. His last four years, though, were with the St. Louis Browns and Cincinnati Reds. But, he considered the Detroit Tigers his team. He lived and died in Detroit where he has a brick with his name on it at the stadium. Click here for his statistics.

Although those stats don't give his salary at the time, there is a web-site called "What If" that projects what his salary would have been if he were playing today (based on his stats).
Clyde Manion died in 1967 and is buried in Holy Sepulcher Cemetery. Click here for a photo of his tombstone and more information.